I think my spouse is sexting other people
By - jgould0415
Maybe ask them? (/gen) asking them about it gives you a couple options - you find out that they are and you can work through it, you find out that they aren’t and you trust them on it, you find out that they aren’t and you feel like they are lying to you.
Each of those three options can be handled with (even the one where you feel like they are lying bc you can bring up trust issues and talk through them)
But if you bottle it up and don’t bring it up to them? It can lead to a whole lot of chaos that can ultimately destroy your relationship.
A great tool for tough conversations is the acronym DEAR MAN that you can look up! Good luck and I wish you then best!
How many of these messages have you noticed, and over what period of time?
Have you tried googling FLRSH and seeing if anything comes up that might be incriminating or simply related to his interests? I just had a look and it gets a whole spectrum of results from a car YouTube channel to women’s shoes.
Maybe he bought you a gift, and is getting tracking updates texted to him from the seller.
Yes- I have tried googling but the FLRSH Manager site looks fake- it’s a single page site with zero contact buttons even when you click learn more. The ERLL.co site I can’t find anything about. It just feels weird. I have only seen it twice and they were within 20 minutes of each other
Yeah, it’s a bit hard to say, based off of that - could be something, could be nothing at all.